ENCOURAGE
With a sheepish smile, she also cringed as he was speaking. Embarrassed to be the first one, she nearly folded herself under the table, but there was no place to hide. A peer was encouraging her in the talents God had given her. Her reaction showed how rare encouragement is in this setting. So rare, in fact, she wanted to hide from its uncommon spotlight. This act repeated itself around the table; Burundians encouraging other Burundians. Each person received words from someone else. The reaction for each recipient was the same; at first, the chin was tucked to the chest and the gaze set on the floor. Then, the words poured over them until a smile sprouted. Finally, the head lifted and locked eyes with the speaker and a renewed spirit went forth. On that day, we were all witnesses to transformation through a few intentional words.
To a person, they struggled to remember a time when someone encouraged them. There are common relationships of mentors and honored elders, but verbal praise in those relationships is a quiet voice. One of the group members described being a gifted athlete. He would compete in races throughout the city. One day he was confronted by an elder who shamed him for spending practice time and race time with non-believers. Out of respect for his elder he gave up cultivating his talent and did not pursue his athletic gifts. Many in the group could relate to a similar experience.
Ephesians 4:29 (NLT)– Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.
This group was made up of selected leaders from various churches who would in turn start their own discipleship groups. The purpose was to forge a new way of thinking about working together, trusting one another, and using our God-given talents. Growth was evident over the past year as we embraced teachings on who God was calling us to be. The parable of the talents in Matthew 25 was a key passage for our time together. The master gave each servant something, a talent. As we applied this parable, we asked ourselves, “as ‘servants’ what talent has ‘the master’ given me?” And in community we proclaimed and affirmed, “this is what I see ‘the master’ has given you.”
How do we use our resources to bless others?
How do we recognize what God has given others?
Do we encourage and “spur one another on” in our races? (Hebrews 10:24-25)
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